One in a million

Over the years I have learned that what is important in a dress is the woman wearing it. For you to look good you just have to feel good. Accept yourself the way you are and feel fabulous about it. Inferiority complex is just the worst disease in the world, cause its cure is not anywhere in the market. Its just a situation where you feel your not good enough and you try everything possible to prevent the world from seeing you the way you see yourself, that includes going too far; doing stuff you wouldn't do on a normal day just to impress; impress who please?; you go around blowing your own trumpet and making people around you look bad so you could feel good about yourself. One girl I love so much always says that "A lady is not heard but seen" and guess what; you can never be as happy as you wanna be, your gonna keep trying and trying and trying and whether you like it or not human wants are insatiable. Your parents live in a bird's nest yet you wanna fix the most expensive hair extensions not because it looks good on you but just cause you wanna impress and after doing that you will now be depending on three different guys for breakfast, lunch and dinner, if you can't afford something comfortably please don't do it. There are girls that will see their friend's lovely closet and do the most un-ladylike thing just to get something similar. You wanna wear everything in your closet at the same time so everybody will see you have got stuff, you pack the entire sleek studio in you handbag just to show off, like seriously stop it. For Nigerian girls today everyone wants to be fair or should I say "white";you spoil your lovely God given skin all in the name of bleaching, forgetting the fact that black is beautiful, forgetting also that you are African. Some people will see Halle Berry on TV and start hating the way they look then become ulcer patients or anorexic just get her flat tummy, you will spend someone's annual salary on surgery just to get J-Lo's booty when you have never given a beggar candy; then when cancer or any side effect comes you will be like "lifes not fair". Like seriously STOP TRYING TOO HARD. The secret to looking good is just confidence, take a look at Queen Latifa for instance, try and wear her confidence, her poise and carriage and see if you wouldn't get compliments. Try and be as simple as Jennifer Anniston and see if people wouldn't admire you. Wendy Williams is not the prettiest but people love her, Kim .K. is just 5ft2 and she's rocking it. So you see, all these people are different yet they each make a difference in their own little way. So quit being a wanna be and realise the fact that "you are beautifully and wonderfully made"